One thing that I especially find odd is that Fez never mentions any family and when he does mention his childhood it is extremely distinct to the stereotypical childhood in the US. Fez also never shows any urgency to go back to his native country. He strives to become an American, and obtains his green card by marrying Eric's sister. His foreign exchanged student family is only on one episode of the entire series. His close net group of friends become Fez's family, almost literally.
Throughout the show we see fez grow increasingly dependent on his friends. He struggles greatly with being alone and is always willing to be a third wheel in hopes of not being lonely. He's depicted as a hyper sexual virgin, who always needs the companionship of his friends. At some point in the show he even fake dates Eric's girlfriend Donna and becomes attached to her, and hopeful of the situation. His circle of friends, and the mother and father of Eric Foreman become Fez's family.
On the show Fez often times reached out to Kitty in search of a motherly figure. There are many scenes where kitty takes on the role of fez's caretaker by feeding fez, defending him from Red (her husband), etc. Fez even asks Kitty for advice with girls. She gives him "the talk," something that is usually given by a parental figure.
By the looks of the show we can perceive that Fez came to find himself and sense of belonging when he came to the U.S. He was exposed to different music, magazines, Star Wars, teen pop culture, etc. In the article, "How do kids; self-identities relate to media experiences in everyday life," Joellen Fisherkeller states, "Many studies show how kids identify themselves as members of friendship and peer culture through media." We see that Fez learned from media platforms what it was like to be a teen in the U.S. and they even helped establish friendships. Fez went to a Ted Nugent concert with his friends however, with a shirt that read Tad Nugent instead of Ted. The platform of 70s music and popular culture was something that helped Fez establish his circle.
Similarly, Gloria Anzaldua states in her book, Borderlands/La Frontera: The New Mestiza, "I had to leave home so I could find myself, find my own intrinsic nature buried under the personality that had been imposed on me.” This first breakthrough from the familiar represents the beginning of the journey in building her own identity, which I believe is what happened with Fez.



